Re-Launch Date: August 8, 2026

KeepYourLoveAlive.org

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX.com is designed for young adults, who for a number of reasons have opted to restrict access to family they feel are toxic, narcissistic or otherwise harmful to their own peace. It is a place where commonalities can be observed and even shared... it is a place for self-reflection and ultimately to consider, "Now that I have claimed my freedom, what do I /we do next?" Here, those answers emerge not in isolation, but through the quiet power of a shared experience and mutual understanding.

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX.org is a resource for parents whose children have opted to go "no-contact" with them.There is profound peace and freedom in seeing that as parents, you are not alone in what many are calling a National Epidemic. This phenomenon goes way beyond a simple "family disagreement" or even predictable youthful rebellion. There is something way more sinister at play here. This website will expose what's really happening and the culprit behind what might be the greatest heartbreak of your life.

Before the politics... before the social media clicks... before the algorithms figured us all out... We were a family. Not one of us was perfect... far from it in fact! Parents raised their kids much the way they were raised, hoping to do a slightly better job, but often falling short even of that. Kids grew up in a world that shrunk before their very eyes... One day they're sitting in front of "Barney" & "Teletubbies" and the next day they're sharing Tik Tok reels and "swiping left" because he sounds like a narcissist! Along the way we shared the best of times, and now, perhaps the worst of times...

Adult children are going "no-contact" with their parents at an unprecedented rate in the name of "self-care".

Keep Your Love Alive will serve as a bridge spanning the divide that separates families, drawing the two sides together so that hopefully, "time" does not run out...

Scott Valenti, Executive Director & Co-Founder

Two sides... Two Websites...

Each Side Represented... No Censorship!

IBlockedMyParents.com

CanceledParents.org

Suggested Navigation of These Sites:

Please read the "About Us" section found at the top of the page first. There are some things you should know about this mission before you invest your time and financial resources in us. Also, scroll down for some additional transparencies. This is NOT your Daddy's non-profit!

We then invite you to explore the site you most identify with. Listen to the testimonies... Find common ground. Apply to it your own moral code of ethics. Maybe even question at least some of what is presented.

We then ask that you visit the other site so you can gain perspective of the opposing side. Their pain is very real so let's put our own brokenness, anger and personal conviction aside, if even for a moment, and at least try to understand the other's point of view and where it stems from.

Along the way you're going to get mad... frustrated... disgusted... You'll double down on your own narrative while dismissing the contributor's motives... Some of you may even question the wisdom, or lack thereof, of the founders for having seemingly opposing views on essentially the same platform... To that we say this:

"Whether your words come from you or from someone else... once you speak them... own them... but don't be surprised if we share them!" -Scott Valenti

If you are having thoughts of suicide or have thought about harming yourself or others, please call 911 or call or text 988 which is the Suicide and Crisis Hotline or chat online at 988lifeline.org to connect with a skilled, compassionate crisis counselor. Regardless of which side of this issue you might be on, no one should walk it alone.

Full Disclosure: The founders of Keep Your Love Alive started this nonprofit after their adult child went no-contact in April 2025. It began strictly from the parents’ perspective. After some reflection, self-discovery, community feedback, and personal tragedy, we pivoted. To drive real change and reconciliation, our hope is that by providing sites where BOTH adult children's AND parent's voices are represented, both sides can gain a bit more clarity about the other. Most people only hear their own side... that's how political parties like it... that's how network media operates... that's how the device you're holding was constructed... Tread carefully friends... these resources are going to cut...

One More Thing: You are mostly likely here because you are on one side of this issue. Many tireless hours have gone into finding content for this mission mostly from social media sites like Facebook, Tik Tok and YouTube. Additionally, the Founders, Scott & Kristin Valenti have had many conversations with families who have shared their personal stories, albeit mostly from the parent's point of view. Here's what they know: Some "estrangements" are short... a few months. Some last into the "mid-range" of 1 to 3 years. Some go well past the 3-year mark... as many as 10 years before some semblance of reconciliation happens. Some never resolve which is to say they take this to the grave.

There is also another group of "estrangements" that may not seem like estrangement since there IS contact. But it's emotional estrangement... detachment... an unwillingness to go "all in" on restoration... It could just be a lack of trust that needs to slowly be rebuilt over time... It could be a lack of forgiveness... virtue signaling a moral high ground... or just flat-out pride. Clinical definitions tend to be applied from one side more than the other... parents might have an assumed position of authority over their adult child... adult children might think their parents are out of touch with modern culture... Yeah, it's pretty much a mixed bag...

We'd like to say that "time heals"... and although that is sometimes the case... for some, "time steals". Wherever you are in this journey and whichever side you find yourself on, we truly hope your eyes open and your heart softens... two things we pray for every night.

Your dollars matter! Your STORY matters! Your passion for our mission matters! Here's what we need from you!

Financial support to help us find and share and create personal content that resonates with our audience as they navigate the greatest heartbreak of their lives ... the kind that can lead to reconciliation. Partner with us by clicking the Donate Now button at the top of this page.

Video testimonials… YOUR STORIES to be featured right here on our website. If being on camera is not your thing, then perhaps a new Blog Entry that speaks to your experience, professional perspective or even opposing points of view. No filters, no rules... just YOU!

Share our content. Say what we will about the dangers of social media... but THAT is often the "battlefield" where we exist... The more you share our content the more likely others will make their way to this site. Maybe they can start to make sense of what happened and the path forward...

NOTE: All donations made to Keep Your Love Alive on any of the 3 websites will go towards the operating budget and promotion of the non-profit as a whole. Even though there are multiple sides to this epidemic, in which everyone gets a mic, it is ONE STORY that is being told.

FREE Resource Center

We offer a comprehensive list of free resources to support every family, because seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness!

Specific to Parental Estrangement

Specific to Domestic Abuse

Specific to Mental Health

We'd love to hear from you...

There is unbelievable freedom in NOT carrying this type of burden yourself...

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